Coping strategies of families whose father has migrated to the United States of America: A study of family re-structuring and filial responsibilities ; Afrontamiento del estrés en familias cuyo padre ha emigrado a los Estados Unidos: un estudio de reestructuración familiar y responsabilidades filiales

The present article is focused on the study of families whose father has migrated to the United States of America (USA), leaving his wife and children in Mexico, sometimes with the hope of meeting all together or in other times with the clear idea that the father will go back and forth, sometimes “here” and sometimes “there”. This pattern has been widely described for authors such as Suárez-Orozco, Todorova and Louie (2002) and labeled as an “ambiguous loss” (Boss, 2001). The main objective of this research was to describe the coping strategies of family members whose father migrates to the USA by extended periods of time. A qualitative research approach was used to study this phenomenon in a community at Zapopan, Jalisco, Mexico. The coping strategies of these families during separation are described, along with the concepts of parentification and filial responsibility, which are inserted within the “relational stress” that migration implies. The theory of Structural Family Therapy is also used to show how these families are able to maintain the paternal image and authority, despite his absence. It was also noted a supportive role played by the extended family when the father was lacking and also a continuous and meaningful communication between the migrant father and his family as a coping strategy for this process. It was concluded that the family members that stay at the country of origin look at the ambiguity (being present/being absent) as the main element to cope with during separation. ; El presente artículo se centra en el estudio de familias cuyo padre emigra a los Estados Unidos de América (EUA), dejando a su esposa e hijos en México, algunas veces con la esperanza de reunirse eventualmente o en otras con la claridad de que vivirá una temporada “aquí” y otra “allá”, una pauta que ha sido descrita ampliamente por autores como Suárez-Orozco, Todorova y Louie (2002) y denominada como “pérdida ambigua” (Boss, 2001). El objetivo general del estudio fue describir las estrategias de afrontamiento de los ...