KECEMASAN PADA WANITA YANG TELAT MENIKAH DALAM PERSPEKTIF PERSON CENTERED THERAPY

ANXIETY AMONG LATE MARRIED WOMEN IN PERSON CENTERED THERAPY PERSPECTIVEThis study aim to find data about anxiety among late married women. Discussion about this problem will be based on Person Centered Therapy form Carl R Rogers. The method used in this study was a qualitative method with case study approach. The subject of this study was three unmarried women, 28-30 years old, live in Bandar Lampung. Data obtained by interview and observation. To improve data credibility, interviews were also conducted on the third parties pf each subject. The result of this study shows that anxiety found in women who get married late is varied from low, mideum, and high. As adult women who already have self-concept, the subjects choose and realize a number of experiences that are in accordance with themselves. If it does not match, it will be ignored or changed. The self finally forms the ideal self and self concept. Self-confidence and independence help the subject to accept the reality of the problem. Unconsciousness of experiences that are seen, heard and felt, can reduce anxiety in one side, but increased anxiety on the other side, because it is contrary to the reality. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk memperoleh data mengenai kecemasan yang dialami oleh wanita yang telat menikah. Pembahasan masalah ini akan dilandasi pendekatan teori Person Centered Therapy dari Carl R. Rogers. Metode penelitian yang digunakan adalah metode kualitatif dengan pendekatan studi kasus. Subyek penelitian adalah tiga orang wanita yang belum menikah, berusia 28-30 tahun yang tinggal di Bandarlampung. Pengumpulan data menggunakan metode wawancara dan observasi. Untuk lebih memperkuat kredibilitas data, maka dilakukan wawancara terhadap pihak ketiga dari masing-masing subyek. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kecemasan karena telat menikah pada para subyek bervariasi dari level rendah, sedang dan tinggi. Sebagai wanita dewasa yang telah memiliki konsep diri, para subyek memilih dan menyadari sejumlah pengalamannya yang sesuai dengan diri. Bila tak ...